DC woke up this morning with a “Happy Mother’s Day” for me. He then moved right in to asking what we are going to eat later.
I made the mistake of telling him that we would try to get Chili’s takeout (HIS favorite place) for dinner so that is all he is interested in.
He gave asking about dinner a break when we went for a porch visit with Grandma. He was excited to bring “Grandmother” a card and a gift for Mother’s Day and we spent a little time there.
All week he had been promising me a card for Mother’s Day. I was sure that since Doug always takes care of that for him while DC takes full credit, he was expecting a card to miraculously appear for him to present to me.
He has and still does draw flowers for me at random, but never for a holiday – on the holiday (well, there was that ONE time) unless someone tells him to do it. He does make things for me during some of his activities even though they are not supposed to be for me (see: Even when he gets the assignment wrong; he gets it right) , so I am not complaining at all.
When we arrived home, he started talking about “Chills” (DC-speak). Again, I told him that we would try. I didn’t know if it was even open for take out.
I mentioned the card he promised me.
Me: Yes, you brought a card to Grandma, but where is the card you promised me?
DC: (pointing all over the house) Card.
Me: You said you would make me a card. Where is it?
DC: (gives me the blank stare; the only thing he inherited from his father)
Me: Mom would like a card for Mother’s Day.
DC: (Still staring, but I could see it begin to click in his head finally) Paper!
He moved his laptop back to make room for the paper.
I went in the other room, so it would be a surprise when he presented his card to me.
I could hear him talking to himself and reciting:
Violets are blue
Violets are blue
Roses are red
Flowers are yellow
He came in and presented me with the card above.
Flowers for Vickie (I added the “e” because no one, no one – ever spells my name correctly)
Apparently all the the reciting he was doing was just him prompting himself to get all of the colors right.
Yes of course I made a big deal of it all and yes, he was very proud of the card. We promptly hung it on the cabinet so we can see it all day.
I got my card.
I had to ask for it, but he understood without me directly saying “Please make a card”. He figured it out.
Now it is entirely possible when Doug comes to drop off the take-out later that he will have gotten a card for me from DC.
DC will take full credit for that one too.
He’s the best!!!!
Happy Mother’s Day!!!!
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